People often ask whether Idenics is therapy such as coaching. Idenics
is not therapy or an alternative therapy like coaching. One thing that
therapy and therapy such as coaching have in common is that in some way
the practitioners of these methods are trying to analyze or figure a
person out. As an Idenics practitioner this is NOT something that I do.
People are unique and different, and they look at life from different
viewpoints and respond to upsets, traumas and confusions differently.
Actually, it would be almost impossible to figure someone out. With six
billion people on this planet, all of them different, a practitioner of
therapy like coaching would have better odds winning the lottery twice
in a row or finding a needle in ten thousand haystacks than to figure a
person out.
As an Idenics practitioner all that I am doing is
getting the person to look. My entire job is to get a person to look,
and keep their nose in what they are looking at until they have fully
inspected what is there. That's all that I do. I didn't live their life
or have their experience; so how would I know. A person suffering from,
let's say, depression goes to someone practicing alternative therapy
such as coaching. What does the practitioner of that therapy such as
coaching do? Based on the practitioner's training and experience in that
alternative therapy such as coaching, the practitioner will ask
questions and give advice regarding the person's depression, in an
effort to bring that person to some understanding already determined by
the practitioner of that therapy such as coaching.
But this
person's depression is not like someone else's depression. How that
person's depression is for them, how that person's depression affects
their life, where that person's depression originated is different. The
word depression is only a word. But a word is only a symbol, and is not
the thing itself. Instead of the word depression, let's look at the word
"cat." The word is only something that we use to communicate about
something real. A cat is that furry creature that runs around your house
looking cute. The word "cat" is only a symbol. The practitioner of that
therapy like coaching is basing everything he/she is doing on a word - a
symbol.
What if instead of depression, the person said to the
alternative therapy like coaching practitioner that he had a condition
he calls the "wobbles." The practitioner of that therapy such as
coaching wouldn't know what to do. That practitioner of that alternative
therapy such as coaching would have to get the person to explain what
was meant by the wobbles. But unlike a condition on depression; what if
the person couldn't explain it? Where would the practitioner of
alternative therapy such as coaching go from there?
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